Your results in life depend on how well you control your every emotion... How to get a grip on your passions

Your results in life depend on how well you control your emotions... begin tamimg all your states of mind.

You must develop self-discipline.

No question… your beliefs control your decisions.

How you handle your passions is a vital element to discipline.

Every day we make our decisions based on our viewpoints. But even smart and people with excellent self-control do make big mistakes if they let their passions overshadow their choices.

Using your common sense is one way to tower above your feelings and get a grip on every emotion.

Your simple 1-2-3- solution

1.Your common sense must direct your actions. And what you do might be rational and in conflict with what you feel and think.

2. You need to keep building up your discipline. It’s you running your passions and not them dominating you and your choices.

3. You need to know if your thinking is based in truth. And this is true for everything in life. You need to keep building up your discipline.

The level of your passion is stirred up depending on the subject.

So what are some easy tips and tricks to harness and control your deep feelings?

• Think about how you can respond before your sentiments are stirred up. There is a payoff for the way you react... so find out what your biggest payoffs are...

•Are you confused?... walk away from a situation.

•Be careful when making any choices too soon based on little information.

•Making small bad choices cause big bad problems.

•Start harnessing the big feelings by having the power over your smaller ones.

•Let your common sense be in charge of your feelings not the other way around.

•Create a set of guidelines. Know what you’re going to do and not do. Be prepared.

MUST DO LAGNIAPPE… unexpected bonus or extra… (What you must go through to get your must have)... You must make an sincere effort to control your thoughts as best you can.

CONCLUSION… There is an old but true saying, look before you leap” but you must control of yourself by seeing before, during and after your leap. What does that mean?... See yourself in control before, during and after any situation by deciding … “that is just the kind of person I am… in control of me.”

From "Fresh Brewed You" books 1 & 2 by Richard J. Stec

The poor schlemiel is a man who falls on his back and breaks his nose - Jewish proverb

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